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Goodbye, Puppy Love

It is an indestructible rule that “Love is a journey”, which means two individuals must go through ups and downs together, before going into a stable relationship. Besides, this journey usually takes time.

I agree with that, and I’m longing for a relationship coming out of such a journey. But recently I realized that love journey is indeed not an”all roads leads to Rome” thing, and the natures of journeys at different time may vary considerably. Simply speaking, when one gets out of the Ivory Tower and into the real world, he has to learn the new love rules of the reality.

It’s time to say Goodbye to Puppy Love.

Maybe every grown-up knows that “Love is being responsible and reliable”, but people in the campus don’t have to worry much about the real life, because the campus offers nearly everything to keep a happy living: a dorm for sleeping, canteens for meals, a hall for movie, a library for reading, and a whole campus for you to walk around with your beloved one.

While in the campus, love means sweet feelings, being together all day long, and bringing happiness to each other, love in the real world means much more than that.

First of all, you are now a MAN instead of a BOY. MAN takes responsibilities. You, as a man, can rely on nobody but yourself, and your ambition, insights and endeavor will not only define you yourself, but also give you the courage to be the man of another woman.

Now love is connected with a family, a peaceful and warm shelter in this crowded world. Love can be sweet, too, but there’s no more campus things. You have to face up to the reality and be the guard of this little home.

Goodbye, Puppy Love!